God has given us a very powerful and strong mind. But we do not recognize the power of our mind. We are the master of our mind. But foolishly, we have made others the master of our mind. Instead of keeping the remote control of our mind in our own hands, we have handed it over to others. Now our mind works as he presses the button. Like you do not like every channel that comes on TV. Similarly, your state of mind is not always in your favor with the buttons people push. That’s why we get filled with stress. Why don’t we keep the remote in our hands and replace people with the buttons we press? Even if people try to make you sad, you press such a button so that it cannot reach your mind.
When we go to the hospital to see a sick person. If that sick person even says a bad word to us, then we think that he is ill. His mind is not right, he does not know what he is saying. We ignore his words. Similarly in life, if someone starts dominating us, starts hurting our mind, says bad things to us, at that time also we should think that his state of mind is not right. If you improve this habit in yourself, then one day you will not feel bad about anything people say. But God keeps the account of those who have spoken wrong. All this is his karma.
To make your mind powerful, always call wrong wrong and right right. Don’t lick a man’s feet to impress him. Because if you do this then people start taking you very lightly. Your words have no weight. If you testify your yes on some false things, then your value also remains the same. That’s why don’t mix yes in everyone’s yes and no in no. By this habit of yours, people will understand that you have no power to take decisions. After that people will stop asking you. This will hurt your mind.
To recognize the power of your mind, sit in solitude and test yourself. do you like yourself Do you have all those qualities that you like in people? If someone likes you then why like him. If you lack all these things then don’t feel bad about yourself. Try to develop these qualities in yourself too. If someone is hurting your heart, then refuse him in strong words. At that time do not think that he will feel bad about your words. Rather, you should not let your mind feel bad. Your mind is very precious to you. Take care of him like a Kohinoor dimond.
Mistakes happen to all humans. If you commit any mistake, be aware of it. So that your mind is not saddened by the words of people. Save yourself from talking too much. People who speak too much cannot control their tongue. And they say anything to anyone. For this they have to listen bitter talk from others. Then their self-respect gets hurt. They feel that people do not understand whatever I say.
Our mind is a storehouse of very valuable things. Don’t make it dirty by filling any nonsense in it. Store good thoughts neatly. Never forget the nice things others have said for you. What is not in your interest, what hurts your mind, what you do not like to hear, do not allow it to enter the warehouse of your mind. Take your remote with you whenever you go to sleep. But don’t forget to close it. So that when you rest at night after working hard for the whole day, no one should show you the wrong channel.