People said I am very good, people said I am very bad. People said that I am selfish, people said that I am a very good person, I am useful to everyone. People said that earlier I was good, now I have become bad. People said that I was bad earlier, now I have become good. Why did people say because you gave people a chance to say. When people were speaking, you kept thinking yourself like that. You kept doing everything as people said. Even if you have worn some nice clothes, thinking what people will say? You are feeling like dressing up a lot today, yet you stopped yourself what people will say. Today you wanted to walk hand in hand with your life partner, then you stopped yourself thinking what people would say.

Those who care about people in everything, have they ever thought that people will keep on saying something. As long as you keep walking with people out of fear, then the decisions of your life will also be taken by people. People’s words have so much power that they can change the course of your life.

Someday you are very sad then why don’t you think what people will say? And why are the people who used to interrupt you on every matter, not asking you why you are so sad today? do you need anything can i be of any help to you?

We care so much for people that sometimes it happens that we are going to take a big decision of our life in our favor, even at that time we kill our happiness for the happiness of people. Because we think we have to live among these people, then why should we give them a chance to speak? But sometimes this thing can be very harmful for you. Yes, it is right that living in the society, we should never do bad to the people of the society. But not so much that all the time do bad things for yourself.

We must have read a story from childhood. Once Lord Shankar was going to visit Kailash with Mother Parvati. Lord Shankar made Kailash Parvati sit on Nandi. Shankar Bhole, you will not be able to walk so much, you will get tired. When people went a little distance, they started saying that being a woman, she herself is sitting on Nandi and is making her husband walk. After listening to the people, Shiva brought down Parvati and climbed up himself. People who went a little distance started saying that the poor wife is walking and this man is sitting on Nandi. After listening to the people of Shivani, Mother Parvati was also made to sit with them. Then both started walking ahead and someone said that look how this old Nandi will bear the weight of both of them. These people don’t even have that much sense to show some mercy to the old. Shankar and Parvati both got down from Nandi. Then Shiv Shankar started saying to Parvati, have you seen the world today?

Shiva says people will not leave you under any circumstances. The one who has the same culture, the one who has the intelligence, he will guess that much. And when we are living in this world, we get to hear everyone’s words. We should listen to everyone’s words, but listen to your heart first. If your mind testifies to do that thing, then only do it. Many times it is seen that those people who do not have the ability, they also drown themselves in debt due to the appearance of what people will think. Your friend got his son married with great fanfare, your friend throws a party in a nice hotel. Your friend wears very expensive clothes. Your mind gets distracted seeing all this. And you start making every effort to do all this. This is the biggest truth of today’s world. That’s why our new generation of today is going on the path of downfall. We don’t think even once that we are doing wrong or our friends are doing wrong for what we want to do by seeing others. We just have to see and see.

There are some people who live according to their principles. People also say many things to him but he does not pay attention to the words of the people. Such people do something in life. We must have seen many very rich wear such clothes which we cannot imagine. But they don’t care about anyone. He is always focused on his target. They don’t care how many entertainment activities are going on in the world. He does not do all these things because people consider him as an ideal man. Such is their nature.

So why don’t we try to respect ourselves. Why should we strangle our desires. Why should we weaken our position by showing support to people. Why don’t we adopt a simple life and give peace to our mind as well as to our family members.